Daily Musing.

 

Do The Right Thing.

Yesterday I finally broke down and went back to the store to buy some new very much-needed new underwear & socks to replace my years-old( more like decades old) hole-y stretched out ones and I got a 6 pack of underwear and 2 pairs of nice fuzzy lined warm socks....and I also got this cute little Dachshund Christmas plushie which reminds me of Buddy and my hubby goes, "Is that for you....or for the dog?"

This one is mine.

I also e-mailed the 32 YR old yesterday and informed him of the DNA test the 27 YR old had done proving his ex-GF's baby really IS his,afterall, and told him to do the right thing.....

and to his credit he did at least try.

My hubby told me he told him he went over to his ex-GF's house last night and tried to see the baby but she "went all psycho" and wouldn't let him in and then accused him  of being the psycho one and he said he's done with her and all her craziness and he never wants to see her again.

It now makes me wonder though if maybe she just used  him all along to get  prego( esp. since she IS in her 30s and her and her previous ex-BF tried for years  and nothing happened) so maybe that was the plan all along; to get prego and then break up with him, to either raise the child on her own....or maybe even with  her previous  ex-BF, who she still lives with?

Yet another reason why you should be married  first, before you have kids.

He dodged a bullet though by not staying with her.

At least he did try and do the right thing, but it looks like we won't be seeing OUR grandchild then,either, if we're all cut off, but then again if the kids think I "ruined" their lives and want nothing to do with me then maybe the most loving thing I can do is also NOT be a part of my grandchildrens' lives either so I can't "ruin" their lives,too?

I also took this photo of Beja and didn't even know I had  a flash and now he looks like a demon, ha,ha, and a whole bunch of my Christmas decorations are missing, not just the white tinsel and the silver and blue ornaments but also my fave. pink bird and iridescent bulbs, all of the kids' ornaments we collected over the years, and the tree 'skirt" as well, making me wonder if maybe the 32 YR old might have even taken them, with him when he moved, esp. since he did say he liked the tree last year and he is well-known for just taking things without asking and helping himself..... if he did he better return it because I want it BACK! I also realize my mother would have been a GREAT-Grandmother  and I still can't believe that I'm actually someone's grandmother and it will take some getting used to and it's sad I wish she could see the tree because I know she would have liked it,and yesterday when I got up I had forgotten I did the tree the day before so when I came downstairs in the morning and saw it it made me smile.

In 2 days is also Remembrance Day where everyone glorifies the military, who are basically just Gov't trained and hired assassins but I just support the White Poppy  for peace and pray for all the innocent victims  of war and for an end to all wars. Yesterday the youngest also asked me where the chicken "fingers" were my hubby had left out and I told him they were gone and he asked where did I put them and  I said, "In my belly!" As it turned out he had left over but I did ask  him first if they were for anyone( there was no name on it) like if he was saving it for the 19 YR old or if it was leftover for anybody and he said it was for whoever and I could have it, so I did....and then the youngest came looking for it, apparantly it WAS his but that's on my hubby, not me ,as I did ask.

This was also our tree 2 years ago, in 2024.

...and last year in 2025

...and now, this year.

My hubby also started putting up the outdoor Christmas lights yesterday and it was so cold (8C plus really windy which made it feel even colder) he had to wear a hat and gloves and it was so windy I had to cover my nug so it wouldn't blow out of my bong and it's just getting to 9C all week and rain so my outside time might be over and I'll have to bring in my patio chair for winter hibernation.

Welcome to my nightmare I think you're gonna like it I think you're gonna feel you belong A nocturnal vacation A necessary sedation You wanna feel at home 'cause you belong.-Alice Cooper

 

Pondering For Today.

 

Stuff For Sunday.

 Have you seen my most recent post from last night Festive And Shit?

Also the only one who even cares.

...and Tom Petty, Eddie Van Halen, David Bowie, Robbie Robertson, Prince, Sinead O'Connor...

We both lie silently still In the dead of the night Although we both lie close together We feel miles apart inside.-Poison