Truth For The Day.

 

Wonderful Ommie.

Yesterday was another good outside day( and today supposed to be,too) and then rain tomorrow but we got 5 good outside days in a row so I really can't complain. Yesterday the 31 YR old also came by to pack up the rest of his things to take up to his new dorm, a day I had been dreading, worrying we'd get into a big fight over the baby that is quite likely his, but he wasn't here that long and I wasn't even able to congratulate him on the baby or even mention it as his GF was with him and I didn't want to call him out or embarrass him in front of her. I thought originally my hubby would just have the car already packed and just go get him and drive him up but he didn't want to do the packing so he picked him up first and brought him back here and had him pack the car and then they drove up. They said the condition of the dorm with the new room-mate is also deplorable  with all kinds of shit and barf all over and a missing toilet seat so he took photos and submitted them to the university.

Ugh!

As for the baby, my Dutch friend said she thinks I will make a wonderful ommie ( Oma  is both Dutch and German for "grandma") and my friend J(from grade 8 ) said I'm "going to love being a grandmother" and it's her "most favourite thing" and my first friend to congratulate me is I ( from the YMCA group in Ottawa) who is gay and doesn't even have kids or grandkids of his own......

but...

I might NOT be afterall.....

as it turns out his ex-GF has been apparantly living in the same house as her previous ex-BF the entire time(I knew she had a room-mate, but I didn't know it was the same guy  she was shacking-up with before!) even the whole time she and the 31 YR old were together, so if they had been "hooking-up" as well then the baby could be the other guy's and NOT the 31 YR old's, esp. as he insists he's sterile and he says it's not his and it's NOT his concern and "just a baby his ex had" and he's not going to concern himself about it unless a DNA test shows otherwise. He also said when they broke up she tried to make him jealous with other guys so it's possible that another guy could also be the father and not necessarily him so I may NOT be an "ommie" afterall.

This is sounding more and more like a soap opera every day.

His current GF also knows about it and they planned an engagement to get married in 2 years, provided their relationship can survive long-distance but they plan to see eachother on weekends. He also left his disgusting butt plug here instead of taking it with him but no one here is going to be using it (ewwww!!) and I'm so grateful as well God answered my prayer and he stayed at his GF's the past 2 weeks too and not here as I wouldn't have survived it and when my hubby had dropped him off there he just never went back to pick him up and bring him back so he really had no choice.

Yesterday walking Beja we also came across The Man With The Black Dogs  and he was walking one of them who barked at Beja, who barked back, and the dog came after him,too, so I quickly scooped him up in my arm and lifted him high up above my head out of harm's way and the dog even came right up to me and stood up, trying to get at him but I just walked away, and Beja was going ape-shit, because he thinks he's much bigger and tougher than he actually is.

Small dog, BIG attitude.

Run, you better run, you better run Nowhere to run you can't get away from you.-Ozzy Osbourne

 

Today's Musing.

 

Monday Memes.

 Have you seen last night's post Baba?

Here, piggy,piggy,piggy....

Memory, all alone in the moonlight I can smile at the old days I was beautiful then I remember the time I knew what happiness was Let the memory live again.-Elaine Page