Truth For The Day.

 

Canna Granny.

You can just call me Canna Granny now. 😊

At first I thought it was awful and intrusive that the 27 YR old was the one to get a DNA test to see if the 32 YR old's ex-GF's baby really actually is his behind his back without him knowing but then my hubby explained she also did it with the help of his ex-GF because or at least she says  anyway that she "wanted to see if she was an aunt" but was probably really just to actually find out if he was a deadbeat dad or not( and as it turns out he is) so she got her DNA and the baby's ( I would assume either  a lock of hair or a mouth cheek swab?) provided by the mother and it was a 98.75% match that she's related.....so it doesn't take a genius to figure out the rest of the equation that if she's related then so is her brother....who also happens to be the 32 YR old, proving paternity beyond a reasonable doubt.

So, as it turns out( after some uncertainty and debate) my hubby and I really ARE grandparents afterall.

Also making us "officially" old  now.

She's  just sooooo cute and sweet .

I just hope the 32 YR old will now acknowledge her as his child and do the right thing and at least the good thing is it means that he's NOT sterile, afterall! (and did he just get fake tests before then, or what?) It's sad though my mother isn't here to see the baby news but maybe on the Other Side she still does, possibly even before I did, and I have to also keep reminding myself the 30 YR old is prego now,too( so another grandchild on the way, now they just seem to suddenly be coming out of the woodwork after none at all) and at least THIS one I know for sure  is our grandchild) and I keep saying, Wow.....wow.....wow..... over and over and smiling. She's also always been a "bleeder" like I am ,incl. for all my births, and so much so I always needed medication to control it and almost needed a blood transfusion so she should let them know ahead of time.

I also heard Stairway To Heaven  again and the most horrible thing on the news as well: Indigenous people fought in both World Wars (something I'm surprised they'd even do considering how this country treats them)and yet when they returned home they were denied veterens benefits and even lost their Indian Status, and weren't even allowed to lay a wreath on the War memorial until 1995.

Shameful.

I hate this shithole more and more all the time.

I also miss Buddy even more this time of year because it reminds me of how he liked peeing on the fallen leaves and they said it perfectly on the news too how Trump and the Republicans were so badly defeated(yay!) in the American Midterm elections the other day as well I thought was the perfect description:

They got "thumped."

HA!

I can still remember too my friend T's crazy mother when we were 13 scaring me sending me running home crying to my mother saying I was "no longer a virgin" if I wore a tampon.

**UPDATE**

Update: My hubby just made me get rid of all the photos I had posted on my Twitter and Facebook and everywhere else I did, so that incl. here, of our grandchild. He said I'm "not allowed" to post photos of babies or children online.

I just wanted to show everyone the cute baby.

Sorry about that.

Life is hard when you're stupid.

Ashes to ashes, watch me disappear Closer to home because the end is near.-Ozzy Osbourne

 

Today's Musing.

 

Bombshell.

Originally I was going to title this post Glorious  after the glorious weather we've been having lately; yesterday it was 17C and the day before 22C and even today going up to 15C( but rain all day) and I've even been able to be outside all day, and without wearing my Oodie, sweater, or jacket; just my hoodie and pants! It's been soooo NICE
Isn't "Global Warming" just wonderful?

I was just suddenly hit with not one, but two  bombshell news though and so I decided to change the title:

My hubby told me just late last night as I was headed for bed that the 30 YR old ( child # 6) is 10 weeks PREGO and expecting a baby in early June

and

not only that but he also told me this morning that a DNA test shows a 98.75% probability that the 32 YR old's ex-GF's 2 month baby *IS* most likely his, despite his claims of "sterility" so not only do my hubby and I have one grandchild....now we'll be having two!

The 30 YR old is also, as if this wasn't interesting enough, the trans "man"

so now we have a trans "man" who is PREGNANT.

Too bad she got her boobs cut off though as she won't be able to breastfeed her baby. I really enjoyed breastfeeding.

The most *FEMALE* thing ever having a baby so now I'm also going back  to calling her her  once again,too, as obviously women  give birth, NOT men, as this trans stuff is likely in the past now as she's been off the testosterone for months now( in order to conceive, as hormones are dangerous and can impede fertility as well as cause miscarriage and birth defects) but luckily the morning sickness( or all-day sickness like I always had with all of mine for 12 weeks) is BAD which is actually good  because it also means the HCG levels are high, a sign of a strong pregnancy and less likely to miscarry and I remember with the 6 I miscarried I wasn't sick with any of those.

Originally she said her and her fiance wanted to get married first before having a baby although I actually think they "secretly" did that one weekend my hubby and the kids went up there. I had a sneaking suspicion that's when they got married only they just didn't tell me or invite me. 

If not, then they're having a Love Child.

Either way, I just hope everything goes well.

As for the 32 YR old's paternity he denies, it was actually one of his sisters, the 27 YR old, who took a DNA test and I guess being she's a blood sibling to him the match was close enough(like how the police do to find criminals, match the DNA samples to close relatives)  but I think it was over-stepping and crossing a line though and none of her business. I still hope though when he finds out that he does the right thing and "Mans Up".

I also thought at least a good thing about me not being Beja's fave. person is that when I die he won't really miss me that much and he will be happy with either my hubby or the 32 YR old, who he likes more than me anyway.

This was also the cool clouds the other day, and yesterday during our walk Beja and I saw The Man With The Black Dogs only he didn't have the dogs; he was just walking with a friend and it was weird; he was surprised to see Beja (and he cringed and hid behind me when he tried to pat him,too)and asked when I got him even though he's seen him a few times before( and the dogs bark at eachother and don't get along) and then said he "didn't know Buddy died" even though it was 18 months ago and I told him a long time ago, making me concerned he might have dementia now or something, and it also freaked me out how his friend( who I never met before yesterday) asked me if I was ok now and if I'm healing, which just absolutely stunned  me and I felt he was referring to losing Buddy and how much it shattered me, but how did he know?  It felt like he was one of those gifted people (like Padre Pio) that can "read" hearts.

This is also what happens when you do a shit in the toilet sooooo massive it starts to overflow and you grab the plunger to get it all down as the water level reaches the top and desperately plunge it before it over-flows....but then find out there's blue toilet-puck deoderizer dye on the plunger. I also heard Cadets(like the kids used to do) were out selling poppies in Hamilton and 2 12 YR olds approached them and blasted an air horn at them and the adult with them( a 59 YR old military guy) told them off and then they beat HIM up and a 40-something YR old woman joined in on beating him and now he's paralyzed and may never walk again.

WTF though?

What I want to know is how 12 year olds can beat an adult soldier  who's been trained in combat?

The gov't also has these propaganda ads on TV telling everyone to wear their poppies and go to the Remembrance Day services, making me think of North Korea where it's mandatory to wear pins of Dear Leader  on your lapel and attend military parades.

I never do because I refuse to glorify the military and war.

I am only for peace.

I wanna go out my way.-The Pretty reckless

 

Weekend Words.

Like in the Roman Colossuem

I've actually done that and just substituted it with a foreign word.

I gotta do it my way Or no way at all.-Loverboy