Cadet Boy.

The other day the 12 YR old got promoted at Cadets.(His entire group did; I think as a "reward" that they're still there and haven't quit yet) He's now LAC and when I asked what that was no one else knew either( or they forgot; my hubby makes all the kids go to Cadets, whether they want to or not, they don't have a choice, and only 3 of them dropped out early and the 20 and 21 YR old loved it the most) and they told me the "L" stands for Loser, that it means Loser Air Cadet which I'm not that stupid and I know it doesn't mean that and think maybe something like Leading Air Cadet or Learning or something? The 12 YR old, 16 YR old, 25 YR old and my hubby have also joined a weekly badminton class as well and the word shuttlecock ( the British word for birdie) makes me laugh too and is one of those funny words that sounds obscene but actually isn't really. My hubby is also gone all day today in Toronto for work, giving me a break from stress and him getting all up in my face, in my way and disrupting my routine, and yesterday he called Buddy "ugly" again( which he does to appease the 16 YR old who loves to go out of her way to be mean and insult him and call him names to get me riled up but I just consider where it comes from and ignore her) and I told him You're one to talk! and then he said, What can you say? and I reminded him, Yeah, I 'm ugly,too, but at least I know I'm ugly and admit it, unlike YOU that's ugly but thinks you're hot! In reality we're both fugly and that's why we both settled for eachother because no one else wanted either of us.

I also heard on the news in Toronto a 14 YR old boy was abducted on his way to school by hooded men as retaliation for his step-brother's stealing 4 million$ worth of cocaine and luckily he was returned safe but holy shit! The poor kid, and I know who the World's Worst/ Most Hated Older Brother is, and if the parents didn't know about the brother's gang activities before they sure do now, and,boy, is that kid sure going to be in a shitload of trouble! As soon as I heard it was a Step-family situation my radar went off and I thought to myself That's it! That has something to do with it! only I was thinking more along the lines of a non-custodial parent having someone snatch the kid on their behalf, which, is something I can now safely admit, my mother and I had planned on enacting ourselves many years ago if warranted when my hubby and I were in our own custody dispute when the second-oldest was 9 months old. We had the police and courts involved and everything. We had planned if I somehow lost custody( as unlikey as it would be,and as it turned out I was awarded it and we obviously later reconciled) that we would use our resources, contacts, connections and associates and whatever means necessary to have the kids returned to me by any means possible. let's just leave it at that.

I also came across interesting and even more convincing syptoms of Addison's Disease making it even more likely that's what I probably do have causing my symptoms and misery over the past 3 YRS or so: bluish colour mucus membranes, such as lips, gums, vagina, inner- cheeks, etc. and I have noticed for the past couple of years or so my lips do have a bluish-tinge to them(and I might have even mentioned it a couple of times on this blog?) but thought nothing of it other than possibly somehow related to the lip injections I had decades ago or due to a heart or circulation issue; cyanosis, and also my yoo-hoo is  a dark blue as well but then again this is also common in women who have been pregnant too( due to hormonal changes; it's pink if not, and it's the same with the cervix, so yes, the doctor can  tell by looking if you've been prego before even if you are lying; that's your medical lesson for the day!) but I never though anything of it since I have had lots of kids but now it all makes sense...In any case though the treatment( unless I die first, yes, it can be fatal, and, of course, it's fairly rare,too, just like I always seem to end up with; always that rare statistic, but never in a good way!) is steriods, like Prednisone, which are a nightmare as they cause increased appetite( and as if I need any help in that department or in being any more hungrier than I already am!) and massive weight gain( and I'm already fat enough, thankyouverymuch) and I'm talking like Michelin Tire Man FAT!