These are the 5 Most Hurtful Things Every Narcissist Will Do To You:
1. Diminish your worth.
The first thing a narcissist always tries to do is make the person they're targeting feel less valuable. What's even worse is that they often do it in a sneaky way, so you might not even realize it's happening. You see, narcissists struggle with feeling good about themselves. They don't have strong self-esteem, even if they act really confident. To make themselves feel better, they want to bring you down. They can't handle someone who's independent and strong, like you. So, a narcissist works hard to change how you see yourself. They'll play on your insecurities and do everything they can to make you think you're not as good as you really are.
2. Gaslight you.
Narcissists also use a trick called gaslighting. When a narcissist gaslights you, he messes with your mind and tries to make you think you're the one who's crazy, even when it's really the opposite. This person will make you start doubting yourself and what you say or do. They'll tell lies, play mind games, and try to make you believe things that aren't true, all to make you seem like the one at fault. They'll twist everything that happens between you two until they've got you completely confused and believing everything they say.
3. Make you feel guilty.
Narcissists don't feel responsible for their actions. Even if they know they did something wrong, they'll never admit it, not even to the person they harmed.,Every narcissist finds ways to excuse their bad behavior and make it seem okay. But it doesn't stop there—they want to make you believe that you're the one at fault for all the problems in your relationship.
At first, you might see things clearly. But over time, this person can make you start thinking that everything wrong is your fault and that you need to change. Even when a narcissist seems to take the blame, they do it in a twisted and unhealthy way. Even if they say sorry and admit they did something, they'll twist things to make you think you're the reason they acted that way, and you're the one who made them hurt you.
4. Change the essence of your personality.
Like I said before, narcissistic people don't just stop at hurting your feelings. No, they want to destroy you completely and crush your spirit in every possible way. After spending years with someone like this, it's hard to even recognize yourself because they erase every part of who you were before they came into your life. You completely lose yourself trying to be happy with the wrong person. And when a narcissist sees that they've succeeded in this, they believe they've won. They know they've made a lasting impact on your personality, and that makes them feel really good about themselves.
5. Make you lose faith.
Leaving a narcissist is really tough. If you've gone through it, you totally understand what I mean. But recovering after dealing with a narcissist is even tougher. You see, a narcissist makes you stop believing in men and people in general. This person has hurt you so much that it's normal for you to think that every other guy will treat you the same way. You start expecting that everyone wants to hurt you and that there's no man on Earth who will see how amazing you are and truly love you. But the worst part is that narcissists make you doubt yourself. They make you believe you're not worthy of love. They make you feel like you're worthless and you stop truly loving yourself.
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