If you feel you were a good mother to them, grieve and then move on or you will die young.
I don’t think a mother who cared not about her children will ask such a question. I am in the same situation and it hit me one day - stop making efforts to deaf ears. They are mature enough today to decide for themselves.
Believe but this is in these days becoming fashionable. The world is becoming more narcissistic by the day. So loads of mothers in the future will unfortunately be experiencing the same thing.
Let them lead the life they wish. But you owe it to yourself to try to have a good life. If they come back, great. If they don’t, sorry but accept and try to understand. And NEVER accept anything abusive.
My sons are convinced that I can never add value to their lives. Ugly situation but continuously being rejected is not a situation I want to experience again. I should be a pro at rejection by now.
Give your love to those that are willing to receive it. Clearly our sons do not want our love. My ex husband made sure he remains the one influencing them about me. And what to expect from a narcissist?
Despite everything, God knows I always loved them and can never stop loving them. But I definitely accept and honor their personal wishes.
Dorothy Sciortino
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