The Gunk.

Yesterday the 30 YR old left this disgusting gunk from his food in the sink and it looks like barf and reeked like rotten cheese. He always does this and it clogs up the drain. I think it's gross and he should flush it down the toilet instead as it has a bigger wider drain and if it can handle a really big dookie it can handle this but the sink drain is narrower and smaller and not meant for big  "chunky"loads, just water. He also left his underwear behind the bathroom door after his shower instead of, you know, tossing it in the washing machine so it could get clean, and I'm not his maid and he's too old to have his mother picking up after him( and besides, how else will he learn otherwise?) and he's old enough to put his own stuff away so I just left it there and a couple of days later Beja found it and ran off with it. I'm NOT his slave though and he'll be 31 in 3 months and when I was his age I already had a few kids so I think he's old enough to be able to clean up after himself, don't you think? He also said him and his GF swam in the lake the other day but I just hope he doesn't pick up an infection because the last time I swam in Lake Toilet (I mean, Lake Ontario) I got an ear infection from the polluted dirty water!

Here is Beja, doing an awesome job as always at being cute and he didn't eat yesterday and he barfed this morning so I guess he ate more crap off the floor again he shouldn't have like always and he's grown much bigger lately as well and I also noticed he also has a distinct darker brown "line" that goes down his back just like Buddy did(and I kept stroking it) and it made me cry because it reminded me of Buddy and I "saw" part of Buddy in him and even though I do love Beja I will still always love and miss Buddy and he will always hold a special place in my heart. I also thought I saw a really big purple bruise on most of the upper part of my left leg but my hubby said he didn't see anything except tan so I either imagined it or else I can just see thru deeper beneath more layers?

I also like this sweater, and the mystery of why my hubby HAD to visit the youngest camping yesterday( as opposed to ANY day) is solved: he said the youngest's friend's parents had to go out for awhile yesterday and didn't want to leave the 2 guys alone so he had to go watch them for awhile, and my hubby also said soon he'll be out of work "anytime now" as stupid AI will be taking over his entire dept. and they're not getting any new clients and their regular ones aren't re-newing and he's just 4 years away from retirement,too, so I don't know what we're going to do about $$$  now and his is our only income now,too, now giving me yet something else to stress and worry about.

and this is a reaaallllly BIG one, too!

And so as you hear these words Telling you now of my state I tell you to enjoy life I wish I could but it's too late.-Black Sabbath