Repellant.

My hubby surprised me yesterday by calling Beja Benedict like I do now as well.

Benedict as in Benedict Arnold.

The traitor.

That's what he gets now for selling me out to the 30 YR old.

I also thought of a clever idea to make him leave him alone and stop stealing him: a repellant of sorts: his GF is allergic to olive oil and as a result he won't eat, touch, or go anywhere near anything that has even possibly had any contact with olive oil and I not only do most of my cooking with olive oil but I also remember I used to clean out Buddy's ear gunk with olive oil and a Q-Tip so all I have to do is allude to the mere possibility that olive oil could be on Beja,too, and he'll stay far, far away and leave him alone and stop stealing him from me.

He won't even chance it.

Then when I casually mentioned it he gets all mad and says I'm "threatening" "attempted murder" and it will "end badly" for me, etc. when I did no such thing.

I merely suggested that at any given time my dog could happen to have olive oil on him at any time so it might be wise if he just doesn't go near him...

Maybe now he'll  finally leave him alone and I'll actually get my dog back....

It's simple: don't touch him, have him up in your room,etc. Just leave him alone...just in case.

I've had enough of this and I play hard.

Yesterday my hubby also got a pair of concert tickets for  last night for The Crash Test Dummies off a friend at pickleball who was unable to go and he asked me if I wanted to go as I usually love going to concerts.....

except I think Crash Test Dummies suck.

They're the ones who had that stupid Superman Is Dead song.

This is an example of "I wouldn't even go see them if it was free!" so he gave them to the 30 YR old and his GF. It's a good venue, just a crappy band. I bet they were good probably front-row seats,too, because the guy is super rich and owns half the town. My hubby was also somehow able to save my files off my old hard drive and showed me how to copy over my photos so I was able to still save my photos of Buddy, afterall, thank God! I thought they were lost forever!!

I also woke up with a blinding headache this morning I was sure my BP must be really high so I took it and it was "just" 145- over-something which is considered high normally but not too bad for me( I was actually expecting 190-something-plus) so I guess it must be something else this time.

In the meantime I still keep waiting to die and hope and pray that each day is The Day.

Most modern kids don’t value family - they think they are just blood friends, piss them off and they’re gone - they don’t care about learning grace or tolerance or patience or unconditional love - none of that matters -Mary Jones