Snowman Down!

Here is our updated snowman family. They all light up. Some twinkles and some don't.The other day after that baaaaad wind one of them was knocked over by it and found face-down in the snow It looked like he had been shot and it was just so sad but luckily my hubby had enough pegs to hold him down tight enough so he didn't blow away. Yesterday we had light flurries that sparkled in the sunlight and looked like glitter  and it was almost magical and we had a light dusting overnight and now it's all white and we're supposed to get a few cm today( 6 or so), so it looks and feels more festive for the Christmas season. It's also our first Christmas this year with Beja but also our first without Buddy and my mother. 😭

This is also our multi-coloured Disco ball-style light on the front porch shining down on the wall and the 31 YR old said if and when he gets a spot in the college residence he'll have 5 or 6 roomies and I reminded him that he's there to study and NOT to party (I have visions of an Animal House -style frat house!) esp. with how much he drinks, goes to clubs and parties, and he scoffed I "obviously don't know him very well"....except I DO, and that's what worries me, plus it was when the others went off to school they got ruined by the bad influence! Yesterday Beja also came madly racing around  soaking wet (like a drowned rat!) and ran into the Oodie I have for him on his little bed and kept rolling around in it to try to get dry( it was so funny) so I rubbed him in it like you would with a towel and I thought he'd jumped into the toilet or something at first but it turned out the 31 YR old just gave him a bath. He IS cute though, you have to admit, even if he is a little asshole.

I also realized that I have more people waiting for me on the Other Side than I do here.

I also really wish I had Buddy back.

Some people are not made for friends. They can't stand other people and other people can't stand them.-cdds